One heart, one beat at a time.
A voice before a face. Post twice a day, never a minute sooner. The rest happens while you are waiting for it.
Four phases, and none of them can be hurried.
Moving on to the next phase always takes a yes from both of you.
Slow is a safety feature, not just a mood.
A person checks every profile before it can join a generation. Contact details cannot travel until phase four. Report and block are always one tap away.
- A moderator checks a selfie with a gesture we ask for before you can join a generation.
- The selfie is deleted once it has been checked. It is never shown to other members.
- Phone numbers, handles and links are held back from letters until phase four.
- Report and block are in every thread — never buried in settings.
- We keep a rounded location, never an exact address.
test is pairing now.
A new pairing round runs every 2 hours. If there is no match for you in one, you are in the next — and we tell you why.
18+ only · Privacy policy · Terms of use · Delete my accountWhy does post arrive only twice a day?
Because attention is the point. Post lands at · in your own time zone, so there is nothing to check in between — and something to look forward to.
What if there is no match for me?
We would rather leave you unmatched than pair you badly. You see why, and you are in the next pairing round automatically.
Is my location ever shown precisely?
No. Cante keeps a point rounded to a few kilometres, never a live track, and asks for location only while you use the app.
Can I end a match?
Yes, at any time — but not in silence. You write a short goodbye, so nobody is left wondering.
How do I delete my account?
In the app, under Settings. Deletion waits 14 days, and you can cancel it at any time before then.